Every parent is concerned about their teenage son. And when their behavior results in a risk for him, you must take action. One of those self-destructive behaviors is aggression to oneself or self-harm.
Identifying the reason
In some cases, the mood state takes young people to make decisions immature, without thinking of the consequences they may have. This type of behavior can be a way of calling attention or cope with harmful emotions such as low self esteem or contempt to his person, as well as a feeling exacerbated guilt for something you have done. When you feel a rejection by themselves, hurt themselves, thinking it will make them feel better.
In turn, in this technological age, the bad behaviors are promoted through the social networks, allowing them to “perfected” in self-destructive tendencies such as cutting.
What parents can do
In the first place, it is very important that parents communicate with their adolescent child. Should do it when you are calm, without shouting, or altered. It's about gaining the trust of the young and do not frighten him with an attitude that is closed or righteous. You will be encouraged to express themselves, to find the causes that lead to injury.
It is essential that parents pass on their concern and make clear that you are there to help, not punish them.
Find out their needs
When identifying the weaknesses of the young, it is easier to help you. It may be an emotional problem, not being able to control a punishment or frustration. You probably find yourself in a whirlwind of emotions, from hatred to himself to rage. The family should be at their side and to seek psychological help in what is possible.
If this is a call of attention, or to get something, you must make it clear that the self-harm is not an acceptable means to achieve their goals.
The fact of carrying the child to a therapist should not be a factor for alarm. The indication of cuts in the skin or attacks the own body is not necessarily related to a suicidal tendency. But it is important to give the necessary help, because it can be very difficult to finish with this habit without support.
If you don't see results, or the behavior gets worse, you should take aggressive measures. There are therapies and group programs designed to overcome this behavior. The most important thing is that the parents agree with the emotional recovery of your child or teenage daughter.